... PLEASE (don't) RAPE ME...?!?
This is worst scenario happenes, although I really wish it would never happen on me.
If somehow I am about to be raped or sexually abused, what's the best thing to do to save my life? I don't bring me any mace or weapon to defend myself, the have ripped off my clothes, they've outnumbered me and my chance to escape is slim to none.
What should I say? What's the best thing to do before, during, and after the assault? I'm thinking to state something like I have STD or AIDS (though I have none!), but does any of you have a better idea?
Now that you have thought about such a situation ,I am sure you should think of living your life in an environment that is free from such possibilities. Choose your friends wisely and build your confidence by learning some martial art techniques .If after all that it ever happens you will be blameless.Be observant of any thing that might help the Police track down the scum later.
What is this, your sick fantasy? Grow up.
You just have to move on...Life is unfair.We have to accept what it brings...and only GOD can change our destiny..
This is gross, but I have been told that one should relieve one's self. Empty your bowels. You can say it was because you were terrified. Few rapists would proceed after that. But I wouldn't want them to kill you instead because it angered them.
This is literally a life-and-death question. So PLEASE rely on expert advice, not mine. And pray it never happens.
Stick your finger down your throat and vomit on your attacker.
buy a gun you moron... better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.
Couple of things, depending on various factors. Are you in a urbanized (or at least other people are around)? If so, scream, make lots of noises and get as much attention as possible (holler 'rape! help me!', etc...). And run like hell. Kidnappers/Rapists don't like attention and they would usually run away. If you're in confined setting, again, try to run and escape. If only one, and he's on top of you, squish his eyes, kick him in the nuts, or hand clap his ears to disorient him. Find some objects nearby and hit him in the head, and then run like heck. You don't need to be an expert in martial arts to do all of this - lots of local women's club would teach basic self defence classes for free.
If after the fact, STD's are always a possibility so immediately go see a doctor. Don't take a shower immediately as the police would probably want to take samples for evidence or try to identify attacker through a sex offender registry.
Without blaming the victim mentality: Best method is prevention: avoid getting yourself into a vulnerable position (i.e. don't leave your drinks at a bar, walk with friends or with a cell phone in the dark, ensure someone knows where you are after sunset, etc...)
All that being said, most statistics have shown that sexual assaults and abuses occur not from strangers in the bush but from someone close to you, let it be family or friends or known acquaintances... I guess know your friends / family is a good thing too...
Say that you have AIDS or STD. Try to look sick and tired. Vomit a little. If all that does't work, ask them to go slow.
if you speak about the worst case scenario first of all you have to be more confident about your self if in case it happen to you (may god protect you) its your variability which is exposed to the assaulter so dont expose your self to much that some one genrates a desire agings you and it leads to a assult it depends how venerable you are and what are you social activities dont ever stay late out at night if possible always try to be accompanied by 2 to 3 people on you way home always carry a cell phone so that you can get help and pepper spray so you can defend your self if any thing comes up where you r in a situation that u r help less ask them not to harm you and do what ever thay want gentelly so you dont end up with veginal damage or nervous brakdown my advise to you always think and pray for good may god protect every women in this planet with this so called human practice
As a social worker I had the sad and often sick opportunity to work with victims of rape, a despicable crime which varies in nature. The sad and realistic truth is that it becomes a personal decision at that time. Women had fought off their attackers until they were either beaten to loose consciousness, or worst, until they had been killed. In most scenarios the rape continued rather breathing or not.
Women and their young daughters needs to prepare themselves before such an attack occurs. There are many self-defense classes that deals with protecting themselves from rape and other violent crimes. This gives a person an opportunity to a least lethal way of bringing down your attacker, which for many victims had placed them in a position of proving that their life was at stake when using a gun or violent method to stop the crime. Unfortunate, but true, our laws does not protect the rights of victims as they do the criminal.
Additionally, it has become common practice for Dr.'s, Social Workers, and Law Enforcement officials to suggest to victim a need for a STD/AID's test. But, remember it is not sprung on a victim, it is gradually recommended as the investigation moves along.
These are just personal comments and not any type of professional advice. (disclaimer)
Tell them that Jesus loves them and died for them too. Make sure you are saved though. If you are this won't be an issue, as God takes care of His children (born again believers).
pee, crap, and vomit. If none of that works, I guess you'll have to 'enjoy' the ride as best you can until they kill you and leave your body in the ditch.
After that, ressurect yourself, and go directly to the police without bathing, showering, or dressing, so that you preserve as much evidence as possible for them.
Once that's over, get counselling. No, actually, do that now.
No weapon? Come on now, next time you're going down a dark alley, at least buy a newspaper, roll it up nice and tight, and use that to defend yourself if you can't carry any 'real weapon.' Or use your keys/pencil/etc to gouge their eyes out. Your doctor does still let you carry your own keys?
Trust me, if something this bad happens, they will kill you when they're done, Start taking some gear with you if your neighborhood is this bad.