How to solve the problems of children with their mother in law?

I have a family 3 children, 12, 18 both boys and 23 yr old daughter. Presently i am working in a foreign country for about 7 months. My second wife had a problem in handling my 18 yr old who was not going home because of his girlfriend. Instead of going home he frequently stay at his girlfriends house until one day my second wife told him to leave and pack up. This event led to my daughters being mad with her mother in law. Which led to my daughter and her brothers to leave and left their mother in law.

Until this writing the problem of my children with their mother in law exist
Honestly, its all up to you and there isn't really any answers that can help you better coz lets face it, you know your problem better than anyone else. If there is any solution, it has to be from you yourself.

good luck

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I wouldn't worry about it.


Answers:
He is 18, old enough to make his own decisions. This is a small issue. Let him have his time with his girl. Ask him does he want to live in your home under your rules or be out on his own on his rules. Let him think about it. Tell him if he pays a partial rent and kicks in for food with you he can come and go a little more freely.
well i have a step father and i didnt like him until my mom made me go do sumthing fun with him like fishing or caming or sumthing i just needed to bond wit him!
You need to sit down with all of them and figure out a way they all can respect eachother it is hard excepting someone else in their mother place trust me i know my mother passed when i was 16 years old and i gave my dad a hard time when he meet his second wife i didnt like her i didnt want her to be around then i moved out and that's when i realize if my dad is happy with her i will be too just as long has she took care of my dad it was ok, it will work out u just have to have an understading ok
DON'T EVEN WORRY ABOUT IT, MOTHER IN LAWS...EWWWW